In hindsight, I went through all the sappy stuff when Steve turned 30 and apparently got it all out of my system then. (read about that here.) I remember feeling as if I was the one turning 30 - I was emotional and spent a lot of time reminiscing about our 20's. We spent all of our 20's together, so when he turned 30, it was like that part of our life was over. I felt like since he was turning the page into a new decade, so was I.
By the time my 30th rolled around last month, I didn't feel a thing! I know it was partially because of getting it all out at Steve's 30th birthday, but it was also partially because I'm exactly where I hoped to be at this time in my life. I have nothing to be regretful about, which is such a blessing.
But, I would like to still take a moment and reminisce about it all. :) My 20's were a time of craziness and fun! They were spent just how I think one should spend them. Exploring, partying, in college, traveling, making mistakes, learning, figuring out who you are, what you want to be, partying, and partying some more. A time where the motto is, "the more the merrier!" They were a great time and I have no regrets. I'm very grateful to have gone through a "crazy" time early in life.
I imagine my 30's will be just as fun, but in a different way. This is a time about settling in and creating my own family and traditions, a time that will by trying for sure, but if done right, we will reap the benefits later on in life.
So, the big 3-0 birthday celebrations were a blast. I woke up in my new home for the first time on my 30th birthday, and although I spent the day unpacking, it was a wonderful day receiving calls, texts and facebook messages. Steve brought me roses and dinner. It was simple and sweet.
Then, that weekend I partied with good friends. We went to Lucky Strike at CityScape in downtown Phoenix. We bowled, had drinks, mingled, and had a great time. After the bowling, we went to Copper Blues next door and continued until the night was no longer young. =)
Thank you to everyone who helped me celebrate my big birthday! It was special and I'm grateful for that. Now, onto a new decade. Bring it, baby!
Tim McGraw, "My Next Thirty Years"
Listen to it HERE.


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